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If you find yourself attracted to someone else, what is the very first\nthing that comes to your mind? What is the very feature that you find\nalluring in this other person? How can you identify very specifically\nwhat is it about this person that is magnetizing you.
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\nBeing attracted to a third party is an intrusion on your intimacy with\nyour partner, but why not using this element as a guide or tool to\npinpoint the changes that need to be made within yourself, your partner\nand your relationship.

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\nPhysical Attraction
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\nWhat makes a dark skin, brown skin, milky white skin, blonde, brunette\nor redhead more or less desirable to you? Does it suggest the comfort\nof being more at home with the familiar or perhaps the opposite the\nexcitement of the unknown?
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\nHow can skin or hair color be more significant? What about her hazel or\nviolet eyes and that high cheekbones? Does being with someone of a\ndifferent skin, hair or eye color, served as a declaration of freedom\nand breaking away from traditions and breaking loose from expectation,\nperhaps?
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\nThe answer lies in being able to identify specifically the quality you\nare attracted to and find a way to re-activate it in your partner the\nvery element that got you attracted to your partner when you first met,\ncherish the way she looks, the epitome of your desirability.
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\nSexual Attraction
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\nWhat does sex actually stands for? It can stands for anything pleasure,\nexcitement, fun, desire, physical relief, self-esteem, intimacy,\nfreedom, a sense of masculinity and a host of other things. Sex in our\nculture is very often used to presumably, get you anything you want.
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\nIf you do start longing to have sex with someone else, look deeply\nwithin yourself to see what you really want. Does that hot babe with\nthat sexy body really turns you on? No, it is not her body, it is you.\nYou can transform your desire into a powerful force that enhances\nintimacy instead of destroying it. Your partner can be as hot as any\nbabe of your dream. You can get that same excitement with your partner.\n
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\nTouch your mate with loving enthusiasm and admiration for the special\nperson they are. Touch them with your emotions. Yes, routine sex can be\nboring and sometimes, destructive.
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\nWhen involved in a loving exchange, there is no such thing as\nperversion. Each variant of sex act can be a beautiful expression of\nshared feelings giving, taking, feeding, nursing, playing, expressing\nmasculinity strength and tenderness. What you do sexually is another\nexpression of how many ways can I tell you I love you?
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\nEmotional Attraction
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\nIs the person to whom you are attracted to warm, romantic, caring and\nsupportive, playful, lively, vivacious or maybe, a dreamer? If any of\nthese or other emotional facets of your personality have not been\ndeveloped or are not fulfilled in some way by your partner, obtaining\nthem can become a driving force in your life.
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\nWhen someone comes along who appears to have the necessary attributes\nto fill that void, you become emotionally attracted to them. This can\nextend into physical attraction that becomes too strong to resist.
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\nWhat to do with a partner who does not share emotions? You cannot be\nintimate with someone who does not share your feelings or, even worse,\ndoes not seem to have feelings. Start by telling your partner that you\nlove them, and each time they share a feeling there is more of them to\nlove.
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\nExpress your loving appreciation with tenderness and caring. Add\npassion, and keep the enthusiasm in your ardor fresh. Be extravagant in\nyour praise and your expression of love.
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\nYour emotional connection allows you to share each other s feelings.\nThe more you are able to share and experience each other s feelings,\nthe trust for each other expands. Sharing your emotions will put you in\na position to have a much fuller life.
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\nSpiritual Attraction
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\nDo you feel uncomfortable in your relationship with someone of a\ndifferent religion and background and fall for a person of your own\nfaith who makes you feel more at home. The reverse can also be true.
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\nSharing your growing curiosity and excitement about spirituality a\nforce that transcends individual boundaries promotes an exciting\nfeeling of intimacy that can be as intense and rewarding as the best\nsexual intimacy. What is more, that the feeling can last much longer.\nIf you are missing this is your relationship, you may find yourself\nlooking for it elsewhere.
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\nHere are some guidelines that have heavenly pay-offs. Think of these\nguidelines as statements of intent that are pleasurable to carry out as\nexpressions of caring.
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\nWhen you think of your partner, surround each thought with joyful appreciation for the miracle of their presence on earth.
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\nEach time you see your partner is an opportunity to silently experience\nthe wonder that, out of millions of people in the world, she has chosen\nyou for her devotion.
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\nLet the energy of caring and love course through your body. Use these\nsensual feelings to enhance love and turn love into sexy soul food.
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\nCelebrate your partner s efforts and achievement with enthusiasm. Sharing enthusiasm with other is the nirvana of love.\n\n

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